At the Battle of Badr, when Suhayl fell into the hands of the Muslims as a prisoner, 'Umar ibn al-Khattab came up to the Prophet and said: "Messenger of God! Let me pull out the two middle incisors of Suhayl ibn Amr so that he would not stand up and be able to speak out against you after this day."
"Certainly not, 'Umar," cautioned the Prophet. "I would not mutilate anyone lest God mutilate me even though I am a Prophet." And calling 'Umar closer to him, the blessed Prophet said:
"'Umar, perhaps Suhayl will do something in the future which will please you."
Suhayl ibn 'Amr was a prominent person among the Quraysh. He was clever and articulate and his opinion carried weight among his people. He was known as the khaatib or spokesman and orator of the Quraysh. He was to play a major role in concluding the famous truce of Hudaybiyyah.
Towards the end of the sixth year after the Hijrah, the Prophet and about fifteen hundred of his Sahaabah left Madinah for Makkah to perform 'Umrah. To make it known that they were coming in peace, the Muslims were not armed for battle and carried only their travellers swords. They also took with them animals for sacrifice to let it be known that they were really coming on pilgrimage.
The Quraysh learnt of their approach and immediately prepared to do battle with them. They vowed to themselves that they would never allow the Muslims to enter Makkah. Khalid ibn al-Walid was despatched at the head of a Quraysh cavalry force to cut off the approaching Muslims. Khalids army stood waiting for them at a place called Kara al-Ghamim.
The Prophet learnt in advance of Khalid's position. Although committed to the struggle against them, he was keen not to have any encounter then with the Quraysh forces. He asked: "Is there any man who could take us (to Makkah) on a different route to avoid the Quraysh?"
A man from the Aslam tribe said he could and took the Muslims through the difficult terrain of Warah and then on fairly easy marches, finally approaching Makkah from the south. Khalid realized what the Muslims had done and returned frustrated to Makkah.
The Prophet camped near Hudaybiyyah and indicated that if the Quraysh would give any hint of a truce out of veneration for the sacred time and place, he would respond. The Quraysh sent Badil ibn Warqa with a group of men from the Khuzaah tribe to find out why the Muslims had come. Badil met the Prophet and when he returned to the Quraysh and informed them of the peaceful intentions of the Prophet and his companions, they did not believe him because they said he was from the Khuzaah who were allies of Muhammad.
"Does Muhammad intend," they asked, "to come upon us with his soldiers (in the guise of) performing 'Umrah? The Arabs would hear that he moved against us and entered Makkah by force white a state of war existed between us. By God this will never happen with our approval."
The Quraysh then sent Halis ibn Alqamah, the chieftain of the Ahabish who were allies of the Quraysh. When the Prophet, peace be on him, saw Halis he said, "This man is from a people who think greatly of animal sacrifice. Drive the sacrificial animals in full view of him so that he can see them." This was done and Halis was greeted by the Muslims chanting the talbiyyah: "Labbayk Allahumma Labbayk." On his return, Halis exclaimed:
"SubhaanaAllah (Glory be to God)! These people should not be prevented from entering Makkah. Can lepers and donkeys perform the Hajj while the son of al-MuttaIib (Muhammad) be prevented from (visiting) the House of God? By the Lord of the Kabah, may the Quraysh be destroyed. These people have come to perform 'Umrah."
When the Quraysh heard these words, they scoffed at him: "Sit down! You are only a nomad Arab. You have no knowledge of plots and intrigues."
'Urwah ibn Mas'ud, the Thaqafi chieftain from Tail, was then sent out to assess the situation. He said to the Prophet: "O Muhammad! You have gathered all these people and have come back to your birthplace. The Quraysh have come out and pledged to God that you would not enter Makkah against them by force. By God, all these people might well desert you." At that Abu Bakr went up to Urwah and said with disdain:
"We desert him (Muhammad)? Woe to you."
As 'Urwah was speaking, he touched the Prophet's beard and Mughirah ibn Shubah rapped his hand saying,
"Take away your hand,"
and Urwah retorted: "Woe to you! How crude and coarse you are." The Prophet smiled. "Who is this man, O Muhammad?" asked 'Urwah. "This is your cousin, Al-Mughirah ibn Shubah." "What perfidy!" 'Urwah hissed at Al-Mughirah and continued to insult him.
'Urwah then surveyed the companions of the Prophet. He saw that whenever he gave them an order, they hastened to carry it out. When he made ablutions they vied with one another to help him. When they spoke in his presence, they lowered their voices, and they did not look him in the eye out of respect for him.
Back with the Quraysh, 'Urwah showed that he was obviously impressed:
"By God, O people of the Quraysh, I have been to Chosroes in his kingdom and I have seen Caesar the Byzantine emperor in the plenitude of his power, but never have I seen a king among his people like Muhammad among his companions. I have seen a people who would not abandon him for anything. Reconsider your position. He is presenting you with right guidance. Accept what he has presented to you. I advise you sincerely... I fear that you will never gain victory over him."
"Don't speak like that," said the Quraysh. "We will have him go back this year and he can return in the future." Meanwhile, the Prophet summoned 'Uthman ibn 'Affaan and sent him to the Quraysh leaders to inform them of his purpose in coming to Makkah and to ask their permission for the MusIims to visit their relatives. 'Uthman was also to cheer up the Mustadafeen among the Muslims who still lived in Makkah and inform them that liberation would not be long in coming...
'Uthman delivered the Prophet's message to the Quraysh and they repeated their determination not to allow the Prophet to enter Makkah. They suggested that 'Uthman could make tawaaf around the Ka'bah but he replied that he would not make tawaaf while the Messenger of God was prevented from doing so. They then took 'Uthmaan into custody and a rumor spread that he was killed. When the Prophet heard this, his attitude changed.
"We shall not depart," he said, "until we fight." He summoned the Muslims to take bay'ah, an oath of allegiance, to fight. The herald cried out:
"O people, al-bay'ah, al-bay'ah."
They flocked to the Prophet as he sat under a tree and swore allegiance to him that they would fight. Soon after however, the Prophet ascertained that the rumor was false.
It was at this point that the Quraysh sent Suhayl ibn 'Amr to the Messenger of God with the brief to negotiate and persuade the Prophet to return to Madinah without entering Makkah. Suhayl was chosen no doubt because of his persuasiveness, his toughness and his alertness major qualities of a good negotiator. When the Prophet saw Suhayl approaching, he immediately guessed the change in the position of the Quraysh. "The people want reconciliation. That's why they have sent this man."
The talks between the Prophet and Suhayl continued for long until finally agreement was reached in principle. 'Umar and others were very upset with the terms of the agreement which they considered to be harmful to the cause of Islaam and a defeat for the Muslims. The Prophet assured them that this was not the case and that he would never go against the command of God and that God would not neglect him. He then called 'Ali ibn Abi Taalib to write down the terms of the treaty: "Write: Bismillahi-r Rahmaani-r Raheem."
"I don't know this (phrase)", interjected Suhayl. "Write instead 'Bismika Allahumma (In Your name, O Allah)."
The Prophet conceded and instructed 'Ali to write 'Bismika Allahumma.' He then said: "Write: 'This is what has been agreed between Muhammad the Messenger of God and Suhayl ibn 'Amr..." Suhayl objected:
"If I had testified that you were indeed the Messenger of God, I would not be fighting you. Write instead you name and the name of your father."
So the Prophet again conceded this and instructed 'Ali to write: "This is what has been agreed upon by Muhammad the son of Abdullah and Suhayl ibn 'Amr. They have agreed to suspend war for ten years in which people would enjoy security and would refrain from (harming) one another. Also, that whoever from among the Quraysh should come to Muhammad without the permission of his wali (legal guardian), Muhammad would send him back to them and that if any who is with Muhammad should come to the Quraysh, they would not send him back to him."
Suhayl had managed to save the Makkans face. He had attempted to and got as much as possible for the Quraysh in the negotiations. Of course he was assisted in this by the noble tolerance of the Prophet.
Two years of the Hudaybiyyah treaty elapsed during which the Muslims enjoyed a respite from the Quraysh and were freed to concentrate on other matters. In the eighth year after the Hijrah however the Quraysh broke the terms of the treaty by supporting the Banu Bakr in a bloody aggression against the Khuzaah who had chosen to be allies of the Prophet.
The Prophet took the opportunity to march on Makkah but his object was not revenge. Ten thousand Muslims converged on Makkah reaching there in the month of Ramadhaan. The Quraysh realized that there was no hope of resisting let alone of defeating the Muslim forces. They were completely at the mercy of the Prophet. What was to be their fate, they who had harried and persecuted the Muslims, tortured and boycotted them, driven them out of their hearths and homes, stirred up others against them, made war on them...
The city surrendered to the Prophet. He received the leaders of the Quraysh in a spirit of tolerance and magnanimity. In a voice full of compassion and tenderness he asked: "O people of the Quraysh! What do you think I will do with you?" Thereupon, the adversary of Islam of yesterday, Suhayl ibn 'Amr, replied:
"We think (you will treat us) well, noble brother, son of a noble brother."
A radiant smile flashed across the lips of the beloved of God as he said: "Idhhaboo... wa antum at-tulaqaa (Go, for you are free)."
At this moment of unsurpassed compassion, nobility and greatness, all the emotions of Suhayl ibn 'Amr were shaken and he announced his Islaam or submission to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. His acceptance of Islaam at that particular time was not the Islaam of a defeated man passively giving himself up to his fate. It was instead, as his later life was to demonstrate, the Islaam of a man whom the greatness of Muhammad and the greatness of the religion he proclaimed had captivated.
Those who became Muslims on the day Makkah was liberated were given the name "At-Tulaqaa" or the free ones. They realized how fortunate they were and many dedicated themselves in sincere worship and sacrifice to the service of the religion which they had resisted for years. Among the most prominent of these was Suhayl ibn 'Amr.
Islaam moulded him anew. All his earlier talents were now burnished to a fine excellence. To these he added new talents and placed them all in the service of truth, goodness and faith. The qualities and practices for which he became known can be described in a few words: kindness, generosity, frequent Salaah, fasting, recitation of the Qur'aan, weeping for the fear of God. This was the greatness of Suhayl. In spite of his late acceptance of Islaam, he was transformed into a selfless worshipper and a fighting fidaai in the path of God.
When the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, passed away, the news quickly reached Makkah, where Suhayl was still resident. The Muslims were plunged into a state of confusion and dismay just as in Madinah. In Madinah, Abu Bakr, may God be pleased with him, quelled the confusion with his decisive words:
"Whoever worships Muhammad, Muhammad is dead. And whoever worships Allah, Allah is indeed Living and will never die."
In Makkah Suhayl performed the same role in dispelling the vain ideas some Muslims may have had and directing them to the eternal truths of Islaam. He called the Muslims together and in his brilliant and salutary style, he affirmed to them that Muhammad was indeed the Messenger of Allah and that he did not die until he had discharged his trust and propagated the message and that it was the duty of all believers after his death to apply themselves assiduously to following his example and way of life.
On this day more than others, the prophetic words of the Messenger shone forth. Did not the Prophet say to 'Umar when the latter sought permission to pull out Suhayls teeth at Badr, "Leave them, for one day perhaps they would bring you joy."
When the news of Suhayl's stand in Makkah reached the Muslims of Madinah and they heard of his persuasive speech strengthening the faith in the hearts of the believers, 'Umar ibn al-Khattaab remembered the words of the Prophet. The day had come when Islaam benefitted from the two middle incisors of Suhayl which Umar had wanted to pull out.
When Suhayl became a Muslim he made a vow to himself which could be summarized in these words: to exert himself and spend in the cause of Islaam at least in the same measure as he had done for the mushrikeen. With the mushrikeen, he had spent long hours before their idols. Now he stood for long periods with the believers in the presence of the one and only God, praying and fasting.
Before he had stood by the mushrikeen and participated in many acts of aggression and war against Islaam. Now he took his place in the ranks of the Muslim army, fighting courageously, pitting himself against the fire of Persia and the injustice and oppression of the Byzantine empire.
In this spirit he left for Syria with the Muslim armies and participated in the Battle of Yarmuk against the Byzantines, a battle that was singularly ferocious in its intensity.
Suhayl was someone who loved his birthplace dearly. In spite of that, he refused to return to Makkah after the victory of the Muslims in Syria. He said:
"I heard the Messenger of God, peace be on him, say: 'The going forth of anyone of you in the path of God for an hour is better for him than his life's works in his household.'"
"I shall be a muraabit in the path of God till I die and I shall not return to Makkah."
For the rest of his life, Suhayl remained true to his pledge.
He died in Palestine in the small village of 'Amawas near Jerusalem.